While the initial days of a new job can be anxiety-inducing, an ongoing feeling of incompetence, despite your qualifications and experience, maybe a sign of an inferiority complex hindering your performance.
This complex can limit your ability to make sound decisions and adapt your behaviours effectively in the workplace.
Let’s take a closer look at this issue and what steps you can take to address it.
How an Inferiority Complex can sabotage you at work
When experiencing a false sense of inferiority, it becomes challenging to gauge your progress toward your goals. This can lead to misjudging your own skills or devaluing your work, causing frustration and helplessness.
Such feelings make it difficult to perceive your successes, ultimately eroding job satisfaction and leading to disengagement over time.
Inferiority complex might manifest at work through persistent, irrational signs such as:
- Worrying that you’re less competent than your coworkers.
- Constantly questioning your skills and thinking that others are questioning them, too.
- Avoiding taking on new projects for fear of failure.
- Frequently feeling reactive or combative, especially when hearing feedback or criticism.
If you notice any of these signs affecting your work, such as avoiding leadership roles or feeling overly anxious about your skills, you should seek help.
The first step is to speak with someone who can provide valuable guidance and support.
Tips for Overcoming an Inferiority Complex at Work
One important thing to understand is that an inferiority complex can create a cyclic pattern of negative thinking. As you experience it more, these thoughts become deeply ingrained in your thinking, significantly affecting your life and well-being.
Overcoming an inferiority complex, whether at work or in general, involves actively recognizing and challenging these negative thoughts.
Here are some strategies to help break the cycle of negative thinking and conquer an inferiority complex at work.
1. Compare Yourself With You
Comparing yourself to coworkers is a natural tendency. Healthy competition can be motivating, but excessive comparisons leading to envy, anxiety, and frustration can be detrimental.
Such habits waste time and energy that could be better spent on doing your best work to showcase your abilities and boost your self-worth.
Redirect these comparisons inward. Remind yourself that the company hired you because they believed in your competence.
Focus on your strengths to build self-assurance and work on restructuring your mindset. If you identify areas for improvement, set personal goals and take proactive steps to enhance your skills in those areas. This approach can help you break the cycle of negative self-comparisons.
2. Stop ‘Handicapping’ Yourself
People with low self-esteem may unconsciously sabotage their own performance at work. This self-sabotage can manifest in various ways, such as not getting enough sleep, being underprepared, or even using substances.
These actions provide a seemingly valid excuse for a below-average performance and serve as a shield against feelings of inadequacy.
While these self-handicapping behaviours might be a form of self-protection, as they create lower expectations or offer external reasons for below-average performance; coworkers and supervisors are likely to discern that you’re not giving your best effort.
This realization can further erode your self-esteem, affecting your professional growth and overall job satisfaction.
3. Don’t Let Past Experiences Shape Your Self-Talk
Self-protective behaviours commonly observed in individuals with low self-esteem, such as attributing poor performance to a hangover or avoiding promotion opportunities to evade disappointment, often stem from past negative experiences.
To overcome these patterns, self-reflect and identify these tendencies in yourself. Incorporate mindfulness practices to challenge your inner dialogue.
Many people tend to have immediate and negative self-talk. Yet, by becoming more mindful of how past experiences may be influencing your workplace behaviours and reactions, you can gain a better grasp of the fact that your thoughts and responses don’t necessarily align with reality.
4. Do Frequent Reality Checks
Those with an inferiority complex often tend to immediately hold themselves responsible when workplace issues arise. It is important to recognize that sometimes the work environment is the actual source of the problem.
So, when you find yourself having negative self-perceptions in the workplace, question whether you need to make changes personally or if there is a need to address environmental factors.
For example, if you notice that your ideas in brainstorming meetings are consistently credited to others, you might initially think negatively about yourself, assuming you’re unimportant.
Instead, you can verify the situation with your colleagues by asking if they experience the same. If they confirm similar experiences, you can collectively take action to support each other, such as ensuring the rightful contributors receive credit by providing positive feedback in future meetings.
5. Act on Evidence, Not Emotions
When you experience insecurity, try to differentiate between whether these feelings are a reaction to a genuine issue supported by direct feedback and concrete examples, or if they stem from assumptions about what others might think or from misinterpreted gossip that doesn’t accurately represent a situation.
You can also seek out a trustworthy network of supportive peers and mentors – individuals who genuinely support you and can offer valuable insights that you might not perceive yourself. This network can provide kind and constructive feedback.
You must accept this feedback at face value, as it enables you to have a clear understanding of your strengths and areas that need improvement, facilitating progress toward your goals.
6. Spend More Time With Positive Coworkers
Surrounding yourself with supportive and positive colleagues can serve as a reminder of how you should treat yourself.
Do not invest your time in colleagues who undermine your confidence, disregard your contributions, or fail to make you feel accomplished and accepted.
Both positive and negative emotions can be contagious. In essence, being in the company of positive people genuinely has the effect of making you feel more positive yourself.
7. Adopt a Growth Mindset
Setting unrealistic expectations for yourself, such as expecting to excel in your initial company-wide presentation or handling a new task entirely on your own, can lead to feelings of inadequacy. Replacing this perfectionistic mindset with a growth-oriented perspective is the best thing to do for yourself at your workplace.
Instead of striving for perfection, view challenges as chances to learn and enhance your skills further. Understand that while you might not have reached your goal yet, your efforts will ultimately lead you there.
Keep pushing yourself to do and become better.
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