Stress doesn’t just influence your mindset it can also impact you physically as well. Stress can cause havoc on a person’s body, It can affect many different body systems and do damage if a person is under chronic stress.
Stress has the ability to cause damage to our physical, emotional, and relationship health more than we realize. Furthermore, Stress attack on the libido is innate
Stress increases your body’s most important functions for survival, like blood flow and increased heart rate, while diminishing non-essential functions, like sex. The effects of stress are insidious
If you’re stressed for extended periods of time, chances are your sex life will begin to suffer, which only adds to your to already high stress levels.
So here are 5 ways stress affects your sex life.
It Has a Direct Impact on the Hormones
Your stress drive can plummet because of stress. It sends out cortisol into our bodies, which is a hormone that can suppress sex hormones, Also, in moments of high stress, we go into a fight or flight response and tend to think about survival. The pressure of work, the need to pay bills, and the fear of losing a job often moves sex to the back of our minds
Chronic stress can cause the body to produce too much of the hormone cortisol, which can lower the libido. The hormones produced when an individual is stressed can impact metabolism, which can in turn lead to weight fluctuations.
If we don’t like our bodies, it is makes it difficult to find the desire to have sex. A Lower self-image equals less sex and less sex creates relationship problems
Stress takes a toll on your libido
We know that hormones affect our bodies system in various ways from childhood to adolescence, pregnancy, menopause and beyond. Cortisol is one of the hormones produced by stress. Our bodies need this hormone, but in small doses for short bursts of time. If higher levels of Cortisol are being produced for a prolonged period of time, they suppress our sex hormones. Lower quantity of sex hormones means lower libido.
It makes you question your relationships and your partner
When we are stressed, we are not that pleasant to be around. Nobody wants a partner who snaps at them because he or she is overwhelmed, and you don’t want to be the one who incites those feelings of frustration in someone that you love either. Nobody wants to go to bed with an emotional monster so relationships suffer when we are stressed, especially if we stop communicating.
Closeness is replaced by absence
The damage stress can cause to our sex lives cannot be overemphasized. Your sexuality is not only affected by hormones, but also by social, relational, and psychological factors. When the stress hormones sets in, closeness is replaced by absence. It is almost impossible to be present, to listen and to be interested in the people around you if you’re feeling stressed out. It’s hard to deal with anyone but yourself.
The stress hormones pumping through the body are encouraging you to either fight or run. This can even lead to you being aggressive towards your partner. You might start to snap at them or yell at them. The people you normally love having around you can suddenly feel like a source of irritation because they demand time with you. This leads to low level of intimacy between you and your partner.
Stress impacts our fertility and our menstrual cycle
When we are stressed, our hormones levels take a dive
Stress can impact our pituitary gland, which controls the thyroid, adrenal glands and ovaries. If our ovaries aren’t functioning properly, the menstrual cycle is adversely affected. Periods may become irregular or inconsistent that may lead to stoppage of menstrual flow.
If you are trying to get pregnant, you need to decrease your stress. This can be difficult, because there are few things more stressful than trying to become pregnant and not being able to do so.