Introverts make an average of 50% in our society which means we all have one introvert in our lives……lol
Most people have misunderstood introverts to being aloof or shy without realising that they have many desirable qualities that makes them unique.
Introverts love people but they do not love spending too much of their time around people.
They get energy from being alone and they don’t mind time in solitude.
If you are in a relationship with an introvert its important to understand their personality traits so you have a thriving and healthy relationship with them.
Here are a list of what you should understand when you are in a relationship with an introvert;
An introvert takes a while to open up to others
You need a lot of patience when talking to an introvert, they always need time to feel comfortable with you. Most introverts have been heartbroken in relationships because their partners leave them for lack of understanding.
Introverts need mental encouragement, show an introvert that you find them interesting and worthy of talking to, they will open up to you because of your support.
hey love having deep, stimulating conversations
Introverts may not show off their conversational skills when you first meet them, but you should give them a chance to warm up to you. Introverts don’t like small talks, they enjoy conversations that would teach them something new or challenges their opinion.
They don’t like loud, crowded places
Introverts always avoid noisy places, they would rather spend time indoors and they do things in small doses. The hectic environment of most places tends to overwhelm their senses.
They may have a hard time sharing their feelings with you
Introverts have a high sensitivity to energies and feelings and sometimes feel overwhelmed by the conflicting and turbulent frequencies in the world. An introvert might retreat into their shell from time to time, afraid of feeling too vulnerable, don’t pressure them if they don’t want to open up just yet. They just need someone to make them feel safe and loved, so offer this to them and they will eventually pour their heart out to you.
They require time alone to restore their energy
You need to respect their boundaries because they acquire energy from spending time in solitude, though, they don’t mind having fun and going to places, they also need time to themselves so they can decompress and re-curate.
Introverts put their self-care and self-love at a high priority so don’t make them feel guilty or wrong for needing some space rather support them and understand that they can be a better partner to you if you allow them some time to recharge.
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