LIFESTYLE

These 3 Things Will Happen If You Are Pressured Into Marriage

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6 years ago

March 22, 2019

Choosing who you want to spend the rest of your life with is one of the most important life decisions you’ll make. You have to be careful .

Even though marriage is a delicate topic, you might still have friends and family members getting in your head about when to marry, who to marry and so on.

As a result, many single women are constantly under pressure to get hitched really fast.

Here are 3 reasons why this is a bad idea:

You lose yourself

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The more you do things because others expect you to, the more likely you’ll end up losing who you are. So if you let the pressure get the best of you, you will start worrying more about pleasing any man that comes your way than about what you really want. And this is the fastest track to unhappiness.

Doubt

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When you let people rush you to marry before you’re ready, you start to doubt yourself a lot. Even if you have a good man, you won’t be able to truly take pride or have faith in that because someone else made this choice for you.

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You miss out on the chance to fall in love with your husband

You only get to experience the special time between falling in love and getting married once. And you’ll completely miss out this if the only reason you’re getting married is that people want you to. Even if he’s Mr. Right, you may end up rushing through the whole process that the both of you don’t get the chance to grow together. And if he’s the wrong guy, well, you can see how that spells trouble too.

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Johnny Drille & Wife Celebrate Daughter’s Birthday With Sweet Family Photos

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November 19, 2024

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Nigerian singer Johnny Drille and his wife Rima celebrated their daughter Amaris’ first birthday on November 18, 2024. Johnny Drille shared heartwarming photos from Amaris’ first birthday photoshoot to commemorate this special occasion.

In the pictures, the adorable baby girl stole the show with her radiant cuteness. The happy family of three posed together, creating lasting memories. Fans and followers were overjoyed to see the little bundle of joy and showered her with love and blessings.

In his caption, he wrote,

“One year ago, you made us parents, and our hearts have never been fuller. Watching you grow, smile, mean-mug, and light up our world has been the greatest gift we could ever wish for. Happy 1st birthday to our sweet little girl Amaris. You’ve turned our world into such beauty. Here’s to a lifetime of love, laughter, and adventures with you ❤️”

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Fans flooded the comment section to celebrate Amaris’ birthday.

They showered her with compliments, prayers, and well-wishes.

A comment read, “She’s so beautiful ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ happy birthday, most beautiful,” and another person commented, “Happy Birthday, Beautiful Amaris Esohe Ighodalo, May the beauty of God keep surrounding you ❤️God bless Mummy and Daddy.”

Another person comically wrote, “Chei my fallopian tube is shouting o 😢😢😢😢😢😢 too cute. Wait dear e remain small! Happy birthday, Sunshine.”

In 2023, Johnny Drille shared a heartwarming video on social media. He announced the birth of his daughter three days after Christmas.

The video showcased intimate family moments from the month prior. Also, it captured the joy and love surrounding the newborn’s arrival.

Drille wrote in his caption,

“AMARIS ESOHE IGHODARO | 11.17.23. Six weeks ago today, we held in our arms our daughter for the first time. It’s hard to explain but it’s the most miraculous thing i’ve ever known… Dear @rimouuune i’m in awe of your strength, I’ve seen you go through real pain the last few months, but you stayed strong for our baby, and for me. Been watching you take on motherhood with so much grace. Something more exciting about raising this child with you.”

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In 2022, Rima and the singer secretly got married. They kept their marriage private until a year later, when they publicly announced their anniversary.

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ENTERTAINMENT

Our Parent’s Generation Didn’t Support Their Children’s Talents – Phyno

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24 hours ago

November 18, 2024

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Nigerian rapper Phyno praised today’s parents for showing greater support for their children’s talents than the previous generation did.

During his interview on the In My Opinion Podcast, the renowned musician shared his personal experience. He revealed that his parents initially discouraged his musical ambitions.

Phyno explained that the current generation of parents is more understanding and open-minded about their children’s aspirations. This creates a more supportive environment for young talent to flourish.

“My parents didn’t support my career when I first started. It’s different now,” he said.

He added, “I think the generation after my parents understands what it means to support their children’s talent and knows that there is something special about a child who loves music, or a child who loves to play ball.”

The rapper compared the two generations. He emphasized how children in the past were often disciplined for pursuing their artistic dreams.

“Then, when parents come home and see you playing ball, they beat you and seize the ball and give you punishment. You understand me?” he said.

Phyno applauded today’s parents for identifying and fostering their children’s talents, be it in music, sports, or other fields.

“I’m just trying to say that era and this era are different. Now any father who sees his son can play ball and enrols him in an academy. Some, at 1 year old already buy you a ball and say you must play ball like Neymar,” he explained.

Phyno also acknowledged the shift in perception surrounding creative careers, saying,

“Different generations, you know and I also don’t blame my parents. I’m sure that the money in music now was never in music then. They also look at people who did music back then as useless people. As people who just wanted to carry dreadlocks and walk around. But now everyone sees the talent and a gift to be shared to the world, and shout-out to this era of parents.”

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See Complete List Of Nominees At The FilmJoint Awards 2025

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1 day ago

November 18, 2024

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2025 FilmJoint Awards: See Complete List Of Nominees | fab.ng

The 2025 Filmjoint Awards are fast approaching, and the excitement is building as the full list of nominees is finally out. This year’s nominations highlight exceptional films that span various genres, styles, and talents.

Each nominated film brings something unique and captivating, showcasing an incredible range of cinematic creativity. As we count down to the 2025 Filmjoint Awards, these films are set to compete fiercely across multiple categories, aiming for top honours.

The diverse selection of nominees reflects the rich talent in the industry, making the 2025 Filmjoint Awards a must-watch event.

Let’s dive into the standout films leading the race and vying for this year’s prestigious awards.