LIFESTYLE

6 Tricks To Build Your Unstoppable Confidence

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2 years ago

November 8, 2022

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Having a low self-esteem or lack of confidence can be gruesome. Self-confidence is necessary for everyone to be successful in their career and relationships.

Every decision you take requires you to trust yourself, and that trust cannot be attained if you already feel low about yourself.There are days when something is so challenging that you consider that you won’t be able to thrive in it. But all we need is a little bit of hope, just like every hero in a movie needs when he is about to give up.

Having a low self-esteem or lack of confidence can be gruesome. Self-confidence is necessary for everyone to be successful in their career and relationships. Trust me or not, but every decision you take requires you to trust yourself, and that trust cannot be attained if you already feel low about yourself.There are days when something is so challenging that you consider that you won’t be able to thrive in it. But all we need is a little bit of hope, just like every hero in a movie needs when he is about to give up. Your life is no less than a movie:

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Overcome self-doubt

We always have certain insecurities and doubts about ourselves, but we can avoid letting them ruin our beliefs. Whenever a self-doubt arises, contradict it by saying that you can overcome your flaws, and you are going to prove it by completing the task which is in front of you.

Face your fears

We need to overcome our fears by doing exactly what we fear. Scared of heights? Go to the top of the building and scream out loud. Know what your worst fear is and get close to it. What worse could happen? Take control of your life by doing what you desire and overcoming the fear that is holding you back.

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Talk to yourself

When you are talking to yourself in front of the mirror, you might feel crazy, but talking to ourselves can boost our mood swings, make us smarter and even improve our memory. However, you must ensure that when you speak to yourself, you stay positive……it helps.

Push yourself

As we get older, and our dreams tend to get squashed, we start building limiting beliefs like, yes; I cannot fly in the sky. Well, okay maybe you can’t but there are ways to know what all you can achieve. Don’t think that you can’t do something because if you push yourself through all the challenges, you might.

Think Positive

Even though it is important to take consideration of whatever negative comes to your mind, you must bring out five other positives along it. Negative bias may help you figure out what you should improve about yourself or how you should act in any negative situation, but do not indulge deep into some negative thought, as it might become too powerful and take control of all your emotions.

Increase your curiosity

Curiosity helps in inner growth through your entire life. Learning doesn’t end when you are sixteen or when you are settled in your career, but it needs to go on. With curiosity, our minds are willing to learn more, and thus they keep growing. New experiences and the will to know more about anything that comes along can help you be confident about yourself. Thus, raise your curiosity levels as it is the only way to live.

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Uzor Arukwe Says Actors Need To Learn To Accept Criticism

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22 hours ago

May 28, 2024

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In a recent interview with Top Charts Africa on May 27, 2024, Nollywood actor Uzor Arukwe opened up about the importance of criticism.

He emphasised that criticism, rather than being something to shy away from, is actually a valuable tool for self-improvement. Arukwe believes that constructive criticism can help us learn and grow as individuals.

“I love criticism and feedback because it helps you to become a better actor. You can’t be an actor if you’re not open to criticism,” he said.

Uzor Arukwe didn’t stop there.

He went on to say that actors, in particular, need to develop thick skin. They should learn how to accept feedback and criticism, even if it’s tough to hear and they don’t necessarily agree with it.

“An actor doesn’t need to love criticism, but they must learn to accept it,” he said.

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Uzor Arukwe also shared his thoughts on what makes a truly great actor. He explained that it’s not just about delivering lines perfectly.

“There are too many factors involved. One, for me, is the ability to listen and react accordingly. Also, mastering stillness is important too. In this part of the world, we’re taught to react to everything and every situation. But, in reality, people don’t have to react to every utterance and situation. For me, the ability of an actor to attentively and honestly listen and be still is what makes a great actor,” he said.

Arukwe disagreed with the common idea that acting is just about memorising lines. He believes there’s much more to it.

“Acting isn’t really about the lines, but about how you perform in a natural way that makes people question if you’re acting or not,” he said.

Uzor Arukwe is a star in Nollywood who’s been impressing audiences for years. He first appeared on screen in the 2014 film “Unspoken Truth.” His big break came in 2019 with the movie “Code Wilo,” where he played Sergeant Tutu.

Since then, Uzor has racked up credits in a variety of Nollywood films, including “In Line,” “Sugar Rush,” “The Set Up,” “Hire a Woman,” “Kpali,” “Chief Daddy 2: Going for Broke,” and “A Tribe Called Judah.” He’s definitely an actor to watch!

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ENTERTAINMENT

“Nigerian Idol” Season 9 Heats Up With Top 10 Live Performances

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1 day ago

May 27, 2024

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Nigerian Idol season 9 got even hotter yesterday! The remaining contestants battled it out on stage with live performances.

Remember the judges’ tough call last week? Lammy and Japh Kenti were tied for the final spot in the Top 10. Well, Lammy pulled ahead and joined the other nine singers who advanced.

Now, the competition is heating up with the official Top 10! Jennifer Ugomu, David Garland, Chima, Mira Clear, Gracia, Stevie, Chioma, Lammy, Lady Ruth, and Maio all took the stage.

They sang a mix of everything, from Harry Styles’ “Falling” to powerful hits like “Never Enough” and “A Million Dreams” from The Greatest Showman.

The crowd went wild for their amazing vocals and stage presence! You can see all the performances yourself below. Don’t forget to vote for your favourite singer to keep them in the running!

1. Jennifer Ugomu

Jennifer absolutely stole the show! She belted out a powerful performance of Andra Day’s inspiring song “Rise Up,” a song that was nominated for a Grammy and is all about hope. Her vocals were incredible!

2. David Garland

David Garland turned up the heat with his performance. He took a surprising turn towards pop music and completely wowed the judges with his own powerful version of Harry Styles’ song “Falling.” It was an impressive and unexpected choice that left everyone speechless!

3. Chima

It was Chima’s night to shine! He took the stage and showed off his amazing vocal range with a soulful performance of Teddy Swims’ hit song “Lose Control.” This chart-topping song is a favourite online, and Chima absolutely nailed it!

4. Mira Clear

Mira Clear proved she’s a true songbird with her performance! She focused on every technical detail to deliver a powerful and controlled version of Sia’s inspirational song “Unstoppable.” It was a show-stopping performance that left everyone wanting more.

5. Gracia

Gracia brought down the house with her powerful vocals! She belted out an amazing cover of David Guetta and Sia’s hit song “Titanium,” a real dance floor banger from 2011. Her performance was energetic and unforgettable!

6. Stevie

Stevie delivered a beautiful performance! He showcased his smooth vocals, perfectly blending them with the gentle piano melody of “A Million Dreams” from The Greatest Showman. It was a sweet and touching rendition of the song.

7. Chioma

Chioma stunned the audience with her breathtaking performance of “Never Enough” from The Greatest Showman. The song is a beautiful ballad, and Chioma wasn’t afraid to be vulnerable in her delivery. This raw emotion made her performance even more powerful and left everyone in awe.

8. Lammy

Everyone considers John Legend’s “All of Me” a must-have for any wedding playlist. It’s become a classic love song for couples everywhere.

On Nigerian Idols, Lammy delivered a show-stopping performance of the song, pouring his heart out with so much emotion that it captivated the audience.

9. Lady Ruth

Lady Ruth took on a huge challenge with her performance! She tackled Beyoncé’s “Drunk in Love,” a song known for its high notes, powerful runs, and unique vocals.

Lady Ruth showed off her amazing technique as she hit all the right notes, from the high belts to the breathy whispers. It was a show-stopping performance!

10. Maio

Maio’s song choice was a bit different! He performed “Ojuelegba” by Wizkid. It’s a chill summer vibe kind of song, and Maio knew it was all about capturing the smooth, warm tone of the original.

He focused on staying perfectly on key and delivering a relaxed performance that had the audience swaying along. Even though there weren’t any high notes to hit, it was still a successful and memorable performance!

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ENTERTAINMENT

AY Makun Says Feminism Has “Maliciously Placed Broken Men On A Dead-On-Arrival List”

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2 days ago

May 27, 2024

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Popular Nigerian comedian AY Makun is facing mixed reactions online over his recent comments about feminism. In a post on his social media account (platform not specified) on May 26, 2024, Makun suggested that feminism makes it difficult for men to speak out about negative experiences in their relationships. This has sparked debate among social media users.

His post read,

“The feminism mechanism in the subconsciousness of most women against men who gathered the courage to speak up on the things they too go through in their relationships, has maliciously placed broken men on a dead-on-arrival list in modern day society. Women should also remember that they have friends, brothers, fathers, cousins, and uncles who are going through a lot in the hands of their gender.”

The feminism mechanism in the subconsciousness of most women against men who gathered the courage to speak up on the things they too go through in their relationships, has maliciously placed broken men on a dead on arrival list in modern day society.

Women should also remember…

— AY COMEDIAN (@AYCOMEDIAN) May 26, 2024

This post by AY Makun caused a stir online, with social media users (platform not specified) offering a range of opinions. Some people strongly criticised his views, while others were confused by his statement. There were also those who agreed with his perspective on feminism.

An X user said to him, “Phewwww! What’s with the outrage? If you have personal matters, don’t drag all women along with your problems abeg.”

“What in the Chatgpt is this Tweet? So many words and zero message passed,” read another user’s comment.

Another user said, ‘‘A lot was spoken, nothing was said.”

“It’s infuriating to blame feminism for men’s struggles. Everyone deserves support and empathy, regardless of gender. Stop vilifying women and start addressing the real issues that might have broken your marriage,” said an outraged commenter.

A commenter who agreed with Makun said, “It’s selective Feminism for them . When it’s their family and friends, they cry foul but when not it’s fair.”

“They always see women as victims while neglecting the men most times, which is not equitable,” said another.

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