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DNA Test: Twitter User Shares Personal Story Of How He Found Out His Child Wasn’t His

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Time and time again, the issue of DNA testing comes up- many Nigerian men are of the opinion that children should be tested to confirm their paternity. Some even go as far as quoting a study report that says most first born children are raised by men that are not there biological father!

As the debate rages on, this Twitter user @Miyaki shared his personal experience and his story will scare you.

So if you are against DNA, you either haven’t gone through the pain of being a child that isn’t yours or you have something you hiding

In 2011,an old flame called me that she wanted talk. Mind you we didn’t even say hi in the preceding year but as a man you don’t hold grudge

It was in Jan, we saw, she talked how she had missed us, bla bla bla, and how she is broke. Gave her money, before you know we became close

Before you know we started seeing again. From that Jan till like April we had sex like 3x. We see, laugh like before, gist, she came over

Was enjoying the whole company thing till she told me one day “you don’t allow me cook for you when I come visiting”. I was like what?

Mind you before we broke up,she didn’t cook for me.I am not a foody so I dont judge a lady by her cooking skills but her words got me scared

In April I ended it, went to Ghana n when I came back, aunty said she was pregnant. I was like you joking right. She said no she isn’t.

First instinct was I am not ready for it moreover we weren’t dating as in dating. She was she wouldn’t remove it. She wants the baby bla bla

I made her see reasons why she can’t keep it, Nada..One min, she is I would remove it, another min she is I am keeping it.Make you decision

She came, told me she would remove it and it would cost her just #200 postinor. We all know postinor. For peace to rein, gave her 10k for it

Called the next day to know if she has taken it, she told me “I am doing nothing to it”. My head rang. So why then did you take the money?

It became a long battle. Begged HEAVEN, NO WAY. I wasn’t prepared for a baby EMOTIONALLY. I became the talk of the town in Benin.

Isi don give F*%&* belle and e nor wan accept am.My reputation was dealth a big blow, my esteem became low, my ego was bruised.I was ashamed

No one in my family has ever had a child out of wedlock… Here I am now. The next 9 month was hellish. Lots of talks.

 

People begging you to accept her for the baby sake.It was a mistake so please forgive her. You can’t let you child be trained by another man

One thing I stood my ground for was that I would never marry her. You can force a child on me but you can’t force me getting marred to you

Marriage and child bearing should be a decision made by 2 people. You can’t use deceit to be pregnant and then want me take you as wife

Male friends told me to accept my fate but do whatever would make me happy, female friends were just forgive her and marry her. Na love

She gave birth to a boy in Jan. Mind you I have always said I would do DNA when the child comes and she would say do na… E go shock you

First day I went to the Hosp,told me cousins the child isn’t mine. That I don’t see an resemblance. One said bros nor talk like that o abeg

Anyway took it as my cross. Dad was supportive. Any decision you make I am with you, mum was pressing I marry her. Marry just like that?

Anyway took it as my cross. Dad was supportive. Any decision you make I am with you, mum was pressing I marry her. Marry just like that?

Had to leave Benin after a while cos of the whole drama. Son was growing, was sending monthly upkeep, buying stuff, going to see them

Time to start school, he did start a school she wanted. Was told to do whatever she wants to make peace reign

Mind you dude was dark, had knock knees (which neither of us had), had a very thin lower lips (which neither of us had).

When I told family my observations,you would hear “don’t worry when he is grown he would look like you”, “cant you see his eyes is like urs”

At a time you get confused again lol. Anyway loved him like mine, had pictures of us together. When I go visiting, we play likes biddies.

Along the line someone encouraged me do DNA as I alwaz said I would do. That he has seen the child again and he doesn’t look like mine

This time I was gingered to get it done. Didn’t know any diagnostic center doing DNA. Google is always your friend so they say

That was how I knew about “PathCare”. Lucky for me they had a center in Benin. Told her, initially she was down with it but later agreed

She agreed when I told her I wouldn’t be sending monthly allowee if she doesn’t agree to it. Moreover it is my money I am using

Didn’t know you can’t do DNA without the child’s mum consent except he is 18. We were told to bring birth cert, means of identification etc

They were detailed. They ensure both parties see everything they do and agree to every step. We were told result would be out in 3weeks time

The test was usually done in SA. We both signed that we would collect the result together.

Didn’t have the chance to go for the result in Oct, went in Nov, we were given the result. Lo and behold ……………

The result was 99.9% sure that the child wasn’t mine.She died on the spot, screaming Jesus I am finished.I was blanked.My emotions failed me

This was me who had said before if I ever do a DNA test n I am not the father, I would do this and do that but here was I blanked

She held on to me crying. I was consoling her. Me that should be jumping and screaming. We left the center and I told her these

You owe your child the right for him to know his dad. She said lots of things not necessary now

@odineisipatrick How’s the boy now? I hope you still keep in touch

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OdumoduBlvck Recounts How Don Jazzy Gifted Him $10,000

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OdumoduBlvck recently praised Mavin Records founder Don Jazzy in an interview with Beats FM.

The rapper discussed his latest project, “Nothing Changed,” a collaborative effort with the Anti-World Gangsters crew. The album features Don Jazzy on the track “Asampete.”

OdumoduBlvck revealed that after recording “Asampete,” he felt the song would benefit from Don Jazzy’s contribution. When approached, Don Jazzy readily agreed to the request.

During their meeting, Don Jazzy not only added his vocals to the song but also surprised OdumoduBlvck with a generous gift of $10,000.

Impressively, Don Jazzy declined any royalties for his contribution to the track.

“When I went to his house to get his vocals, he gave me $10,000 and even my friend was asking me why he gave me such a huge amount of money,” he narrated in the interview.

OdumoduBlvck further praised Don Jazzy, describing him as the most original personality in the Nigerian music industry and a true icon.

“There’s nobody more original than Don Jazzy…The way the younger artists look up to Burna Boy, Davido, Wizkid, and Olamide today is how they used to look up to Don Jazzy”.

OdumoduBlvck’s praise for Don Jazzy’s generosity and influence on the Nigerian music industry echoes sentiments expressed by numerous artists whose careers have been shaped by the Mavin Records boss.

Four-time Grammy nominee Davido has credited Don Jazzy and D’banj’s flamboyant lifestyle for inspiring him to relocate to Nigeria and pursue his musical aspirations.

Don Jazzy’s philanthropic endeavours also continue to make headlines. Recently, he donated a substantial sum of 100 million naira to Very Dark Man’s charity.

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Actress Eucharia Anunobi Preaches Against Seeking Validation From Others

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Nigerian actress and evangelist Eucharia Anunobi shared a compelling message about self-empowerment through her Instagram platform on December 19, 2024.

The Nollywood veteran directly addressed her followers in a social media post, urging them to break free from seeking external validation.

Anunobi, known for her influential roles in the Nigerian film industry, stressed that individuals should cultivate a strong sense of self-worth independent of others’ opinions.

The acclaimed actress articulated that personal growth and fulfilment stem from embracing one’s authentic self rather than conforming to societal expectations or public judgment.

In the video posted, Eucharia Anunobi enquired, “Why do you want everyone to like you? Even ice cream isn’t liked by everyone, come on.”Her post caption read,

“Seeking to be liked by all is a sign that you are emotionally and spiritually imbalanced! Some people will hate you because to hate is what gives them joy!! Because they are genetically wicked!!! So get used to not being liked!!!!1 John 5:19.”

The actress’s post ignited a flurry of reactions in her comment section, with followers expressing support and sharing their personal reflections.

Actress Sola Sobowale commented simply, “Fact.”

Other followers shared their thoughts, with one writing, “Anyone who is always seeking validation from the public whenever he or she does something, just know say that person no clear 💯.”

“Caring what people think about you is natural. Letting it drive your behaviours and keep you from doing things you believe in is usually a sign of,” said another person.

Another Instagram user shed more light on the issue, saying,

“codependency conditioning. The core belief in codependency is: what people think of me defines what I think of me. My mother always said, “Your opinion of me is none of my business.” It can get real exhausting perceiving yourself through the eyes of others. No matter how pure your intention, you cannot control how people receive you. Give others the freedom to perceive you as they wish, for it’s merely a reflection of themselves and not your reality. Never mind who sees you. Do you see you?”

“I don’t like people who wanna be liked by everyone, just do you and move on,”

“Thisss ,it’s okay to be a bad person in another persons story ,Only God is PERFECT 👍”

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Elozonam Reflects On How “Japa” Makes It Hard For Him To Make Friends

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Former BBNaija star and content creator Elozonam revealed how Nigeria’s “japa” syndrome—where individuals emigrate in search of better opportunities abroad—has impacted his personal relationships, especially with friends and family.

During a conversation on the Uncoloured Podcast, hosted by fellow BBNaija alum Venita, Elozonam candidly shared how his twin brother’s relocation has significantly altered their once-close dynamic.

“For my twin brother and I, being twins, we naturally used to argue a lot,” Elozonam said. “But after he left, there was nothing to fight about. Now I have to consciously reach out to him because there are days or weeks when I don’t hear from him. It’s frustrating, but I understand that everyone has to do what they need to survive and build a better life.”  

Elozonam reflected on how the japa wave has reshaped his social circle. He traced the trend back to 2018 when his former boss moved abroad with his family.

“That seemed to open the floodgates,” he said. “Since then, people have been leaving one after the other. It’s exhausting. You become hesitant to form new friendships because you don’t know if they’ll just up and leave tomorrow.” 

He expressed deep frustration about Nigeria’s deteriorating economy and infrastructure. He acknowledged that unemployment, insecurity, and poor living conditions push many Nigerians to seek better opportunities in other countries.

“Between 2018 and 2024, I’ve seen so many people leave. Nigeria isn’t improving, and everyone wants a better future. It’s hard to blame them, but it’s also hard for those of us left behind.”

Watch the interview below.

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