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Feminism is easier in Nigeria than in the United States – Chimamanda Adichie

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Nigerian novelist Chimamanda Adichie says that feminism is slightly easier for women in Nigeria than their counterparts in the United States.

The 39-year-old writer of Half of a Yellow Sun told TimesTalks in an interview that this applies to older women in both countries.

“I think feminism is always contextual. I think in general and at the risk of simplifying, it is slightly easier for women in Nigeria as they get older and I think it gets slightly difficult for women in the US as they get older,” she said.

“To be young and female in the US means to be shielded becuase things are not as overt but I think as you get older and become more invisible in more ways than one and that is where the more structural things kick in.

“When you are 12, the pay gap doesn’t really affect you but when you are 55, it does. For me, there is a kind of invisibility for older women in this country, a very disturbing worship of youth that I find strange.

“Youth is lovely but I don’t think there’s much the youth can teach me. I’d like to learn about women who are 55, about their experiences. I feel like there is no mainstream culture that celebrates women who have passed a certain age.

“In Nigeria, because it is still a culture that largely respects age. When a woman gets older, there’s a bit of more respect as though age starts to shape gender. People have said that the worst thing in Nigeria is to be young, female and occupy any position of power.”

Adichie said in Nigeria, feminists know what they are up against and this makes it easier for them.

“In some ways, there is something refreshing about Nigeria’s sexism because you know what you are dealing with. In this country, it’s layered and there is a lot of pressure on women here to prove sexism. Look at what happened with Hillary Clinton and it’s interesting how many intelligent people are dismissive of the fact that misogny played a role in how she was covered.

“In Nigeria, people will tell you clearly, a woman can not be a governor so at least you know what you are dealing with. Women in this country are expected to be sexy but not sexual.

“With all the conversations about rape or consent, I feel like we are not talking about the fundamental thing which is that sexuality is not allowed women. Female sexuality is something we are uncomfortable about.

“In Nigeria, they are very clear, don’t be sexy, don’t be sexual. There is nothing to be confused about. I don’t think any is better or worse but there is something to be said about being refreshingly obvious.”

Feminism is easier in Nigeria than in the United States - Chimamanda Adichie

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I Broke My Neck In 2013 – Jason Derulo Recounts Gym Accident

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Singer Jason Derulo got candid about a shocking past injury during a recent appearance on Paris Hilton’s podcast “I Am Paris.” Derulo revealed that he actually broke his neck in 2013 while training in the gym in preparation for his “Future History World Tour.”

The incident sounded horrific. Derulo described experiencing a fall that left him fearing the worst. The severity of the injury was so significant that it ultimately forced him to cancel his entire world tour.

Despite the gravity of the situation, Derulo persevered. He shared with Hilton that his recovery process took roughly seven months. This experience undoubtedly served as a major challenge, but Derulo’s determination to heal and get back on his feet is surely an inspiring story for many.

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“I broke my neck in 2013. I was getting ready for my world tour and working with this trainer. He was like, ‘Today, we’re going to work on endurance, so I need you to do these back tucks back-to-back.’ I slipped during one of the back tucks, and I landed on my head, breaking my C-2 vertebrae. As soon as it happened, I heard a big crack, and I was like, ‘Holy s**t, is this it? Is this how it all ends?'”

“All the thoughts you could imagine are going through my head at the time, and I remember thinking to myself, ‘S–t, my mom is in the car waiting for me outside.’ I didn’t want to scare her.”

Jason Derulo was only 22 years old at the time of the accident. Even though the injury sounds serious, he tried to downplay it. While holding his neck in pain, he simply told his mom he was hurt.

“I think I just hurt myself a little bit,” before asking to take him to the hospital “just to check it out.”

“The doctor was like, ‘Well, I have some good news and some bad news,’ Jason noted of his X-rays. “‘You’re still here with us and can move all your limbs. The bad news is you’re going to be out for seven months,'” he added.

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I Feel Like The UK Is Very Similar To Nigeria – Ayra Starr

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Singer Ayra Starr says that Nigeria and the UK are similar | Fab.ng

In a recent interview with Capital XTRA, Afrobeats singer Ayra Starr dished on a variety of topics. She shared her experiences touring alongside the legendary Chris Brown. Ayra Starr also spoke about her latest album, “The Year I Turned 21.” This album holds a special place in her heart as it chronicles experiences from a pivotal year in her life.

Perhaps most surprising was her take on cultural similarities. Ayra Starr revealed that she doesn’t find a huge difference between Nigeria, her home country, and the United Kingdom. This might surprise some listeners, as these two places have distinct cultures and traditions.

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Join KieKie On A Fashion Journey Through Lagos In ‘Shopaholic’ Series

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A brand new YouTube series called “Shopaholic” is coming to your screens! Join the fabulous KieKie as she takes you on a shopping spree through the exciting city of Lagos, Nigeria. The first episode premieres today, Friday, July 5th, on the Lady Laide Media YouTube channel.

“Shopaholic” is perfect for anyone who loves fashion or is simply curious about shopping in Lagos. KieKie will be your charismatic host. She will be your guide as she explores a variety of stores, from hidden gems to popular brands. She’ll share her favourite finds, giving you valuable tips and insights on what you can discover in Lagos.

Get ready to see everything from stylish clothes and trendy gadgets to the fun and energy of the Lagos shopping scene. KieKie will share her honest reactions to the stores and even reveal the costs of some of the items, so you can get a feel for shopping in Lagos.

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Throughout the show, KieKie will be your shopping buddy. Also, she’ll be sharing her final selections from each store. This is your chance to see what catches her eye and maybe get some inspiration for your own shopping adventures.

This is just the beginning. “Shopaholic” Season 1 focuses on Lagos, but get ready for more retail adventures in Season 2. It will explore Abuja, another exciting Nigerian city. The show even has plans to travel internationally in Season 3 – they might even visit your country.

So, share your favourite shopping spots with KieKie – she might just feature them in a future episode! Don’t forget to subscribe to the Lady Laide Media YouTube channel and turn on post notifications so you never miss an episode. Get ready to shop along with KieKie and discover the best of Nigeria’s vibrant shopping scene.

Weekly episodes are also available in French.

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