There are certain aspects of your past that can be relevant to your current relationship. And while there’s nothing wrong with leaving the past where it is, sharing where you’re coming from can help your partner understand you better.
Ultimately, it’s up to you to decide what you confide in your partner about. But these three topics concerning your sexual past do not necessarily have to be discussed:
Intimate details about past sexual partners
It’s rude, immature and downright unnecessary to reveal intimate details about your past sexual partners to your current one. This is less about his need to know those things and more about breaking an unspoken rule.
Your body count
Your partner does not need to know exactly how many men you have been with. It puts you in a position to be judged by your partner. The point is, not much good comes out of this type of discussion.
The best you ever had
Truth is, we all want to feel like we’re the best our partner ever had in bed. There’s no need to reveal who you had mind-blowing, epic, earth-shattering sex with. That can lead to tension in the relationship and make your partner feel insecure.