LIFESTYLE

You Shouldn’t Do These 7 Things On Your First Date

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6 years ago

July 7, 2018

First dates can be filled with a lot of feelings. I mean first impressions last longer and knowing that you can meet the person who can become a vital part of your life is very nerve-wracking, isn’t it?

This article highlight 7 things you should not do on the first date!

We become much more nervous when we don’t know what to do. Sometimes, it feels like it would have been much easier if there was someone hiding somewhere and giving us tips on what to do.

If you know the things you shouldn’t do, you will not embarrass yourself in front of the person that could become the love of your life.

So if you want to start nailing it from the first date, here are the things you should not do on the first date

Don’t get drunk

You might have alcohol during your date but you should not get drunk. When you get drunk, you ramble a lot. You don’t want your date to have the wrong impression. I personally believe that you should drink very light so you can reflect on the date.

Never talk about your “ex”

It’s so easy to start talking about your ‘ex’ but no matter how things ended in your last relationship, try not to talk about your ‘ex’. This could make your date feel you’re making comparisons between him and your ex and that you’re not really ready to start dating.

Don’t talk about marriage or children

Marriage and children are a no-no on the first date! It could make your date feel awkward even though he has the same aims as you do. Be patient and wait till you have more dates (if you do) before talking about marriage.

Never Forget Your Manners

Remember to always say please and thank you, and close your mouth while eating. Also ladies always apply your lipstick in the restroom and not at the table after eating. Your date will often judge you on the ways you relate with others and how much you value etiquette.

Don’t forget Your Hygiene

when people are anxious about something such as first date, they tend to forget to do some things like brushing your teeth and combing your hair. Make sure your hair is well-kept and you showered your best. Your clothes must be clean and ironed. Wear deodorant and try a perfume or aftershave. Make sure your physical appearance is stunning.

Ask questions

Never constantly talk about yourself to the extent that you forget to ask your date anything. They obviously would have things to say so you can know them better. Make sure you both have equal opportunity to talk and always pay attention to what your date is saying.

Don’t talk over your date

Don’t let your date feel like he is struggling to be heard. It is very respectful to keep quiet and pay attention when your date is speaking.

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Falz Speaks About His Worst Date Experience

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Nigerian rapper Falz recently shared a humorous yet awkward story from one of his early dating experiences. During an interview on the Cocktails and Takeaways podcast with British media personality Madame Joyce, Falz recounted a surprising request from his date.

She asked him to order takeout for her family members back home. He explained the situation with his signature humour, highlighting how unexpected and awkward the moment was.

He explained,

“I haven’t had too many date experiences but the worst probably was this girl asking to buy stuff for her family at home, so I wasn’t sure how to feel. This was in Nigeria and I didn’t know whether to feel bad or not. She wanted me to buy takeaway for them, like to buy for each person… So different portions for the members of the family, takeaway for them. I didn’t even know whether to feel bad, because it was like, I came here on a date with you, not the whole family.”

Falz acknowledged that the request felt unusual but considered the possibility that her family genuinely needed the food. “I then sat and thought, What if they’re hungry? We were at a proper restaurant.”

“I feel like there are things that, when it comes to dates, there are things that the person would say directly or indirectly that would make you know whether you want to continue talking to them or not,” he added.

The rapper dismissed the idea that men immediately know if a woman is marriage material on the first date. He elaborated, suggesting that relationships often require time and experience to fully understand a partner’s potential.

He said, “To this day, there is nobody I can say that this is someone I want to marry. I haven’t gotten to that stage yet so I think it’d take a while.”

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Denzel Washington Opens Up About 15-Year Battle With Alcohol

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Hollywood icon Denzel Washington recently disclosed his past struggles with alcohol during an interview with Esquire.

The two-time Academy Award winner candidly shared a fifteen-year pattern of wine consumption. What began as a casual habit gradually escalated into a regular occurrence.

He began, “Wine is very tricky. It’s very slow. It ain’t like, boom, all of a sudden,” he elaborated, recalling how a wine cellar he constructed in 1999 within his home became a place for self-indulgence.

The actor added,

“And part of it was we built this big house in 1999 with a ten-thousand-bottle wine cellar, and I learned to drink the best. So I’m gonna drink my ’61s and my ’82s and whatever we had. Wine was my thing, and now I was popping $4,000 bottles just because that’s what was left. And then later in those years I’d call Gil Turner’s Fine Wines & Spirits on Sunset Boulevard and say, Send me two bottles, the best of this or that.”

Washington also delved into his past, acknowledging his youthful experimentation with drugs. However, he emphasized that he never developed an addiction to substances such as heroin or cocaine.

He continued,

“I’m sure at first it was easy because I was younger. Two months off and let’s go. But drinking was a fifteen-year pattern. And truth be told, it didn’t start in ’99. It started earlier.”

A decade ago, as Washington neared his 60th birthday, a turning point arrived. He made the resolute decision to abstain from alcohol completely.

“I’ve done a lot of damage to the body. We’ll see. I’ve been clean. Be ten years this December. I stopped at sixty and I haven’t had a thimble’s worth since. Things are opening up for me now—like being seventy. It’s real. And it’s okay. This is the last chapter—if I get another thirty, what do I want to do? My mother made it to ninety-seven,” said Washington.

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Skepta Graced Africa International Film Festival (AFRIFF) In Elegant Trad

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Skepta made a grand entrance at Africa’s biggest film celebration, the Africa International Film Festival (AFRIFF). Through his attire, he showcased his deep connection to Nigerian culture.

The globally acclaimed artist donned an exquisite navy blue Agbada, tailored to perfection and adorned with striking royal blue and white embroidery highlighting the richness of his Yoruba heritage.

His choice of an Eastern native red cap added a distinctive flair, symbolizing his embrace of the Igbo culture. At the same time, adding a white necklace further enhanced the authenticity of his traditional look.

Skepta’s outfit was a testament to his impeccable sense of style and a deliberate nod to his dual cultural roots, blending elements of Western and Eastern Nigerian traditions.

The embroidery on the Agbada sparkled under the lights, drawing admiration from onlookers who marvelled at how seamlessly he combined cultural symbolism with modern elegance.

The bright red cap perched confidently on his head served as a bold statement of pride in his heritage, while the white necklace provided a subtle yet impactful finishing touch.

Nigerian paparazzi videographer Tosin Adeaga, popularly known as Coccolait, captured these unforgettable moments with his lens.

The up-close visuals reveal the intricate details of Skepta’s ensemble. Indeed, it emphasizes the craftsmanship and thoughtfulness that went into every element.

Coccolait’s expert videography showcases the textures, colours, and movements of Skepta’s attire as he mingled with attendees, further immortalizing this iconic cultural expression.

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With his appearance, Skepta not only celebrated the artistry of Nigerian fashion but also sent a powerful message about the importance of honouring one’s roots in creative and meaningful ways.

The moment was a true highlight of AFRIFF, blending tradition with the contemporary flair of a global icon.

Watch the photos below.