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Actor I.K Ogbonna Replies American Relationship Expert Who Called His Advice, To Ladies, Stupid.

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Days ago, Ogbonna took to his page to advice ladies against acting the wife role when they have no insurance/ assurance. However, popular American and elationship expert, Terryderon, called the advice, stupid.

Ogbonna has now replied him. In a post on his page, he said: “My Father once said “When a man meets a woman he already knows what he wants from/with her”. That being said.

A man won’t always tell you but he will definitely ALWAYS show you the intention he has towards you . Women,on the other hand,more often than not see what they wish to see thereby making excuses for the Guy and whatever shitty treatment they might get from him. .

The society we find ourselves has subconsciously placed the men as “the shot callers” because the African woman is not expected to propose to the man.A man should be honest enough to define the nature of relationship he has with a woman,because some ladies do wish to settle down as they are biologically limited when it comes to childbirth and all,this is not saying “desperation” in anyway and it’s not nice to give someone fake hopes. .

But at the same time ladies,listen carefully: In order to protect yourself from men wasting your precious time ,my sisters,you need to LOVE YOURSELF enough not to settle for an incomplete “deal” ,excuses,and not to settle for small piece of attention all because you are lonely. .

A man that truly wants you will show you and the world around you that you are his woman and you won’t need to force it,guess,doubt,wander ,no matter the circumstances. With all due respect Terryderon, just like you rightly said the dating culture for the Africans and Americans is different but regardless a Woman’s need is UNIVERSAL.”

Days ago, Ogbonna took to his page to advice ladies against acting the wife role when they have no insurance/ assurance. However, popular American and elationship expert, Terryderon, called the advice, stupid (pictured above).
Ogbonna has now replied him. In a post on his page, he said: “My Father once said “When a man meets a woman he already knows what he wants from/with her”. That being said.

A man won’t always tell you but he will definitely ALWAYS show you the intention he has towards you . Women,on the other hand,more often than not see what they wish to see thereby making excuses for the Guy and whatever shitty treatment they might get from him. .

The society we find ourselves has subconsciously placed the men as “the shot callers” because the African woman is not expected to propose to the man.A man should be honest enough to define the nature of relationship he has with a woman,because some ladies do wish to settle down as they are biologically limited when it comes to childbirth and all,this is not saying “desperation” in anyway and it’s not nice to give someone fake hopes. .
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But at the same time ladies,listen carefully: In order to protect yourself from men wasting your precious time ,my sisters,you need to LOVE YOURSELF enough not to settle for an incomplete “deal” ,excuses,and not to settle for small piece of attention all because you are lonely. .
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A man that truly wants you will show you and the world around you that you are his woman and you won’t need to force it,guess,doubt,wander ,no matter the circumstances. With all due respect Terryderon, just like you rightly said the dating culture for the Africans and Americans is different but regardless a Woman’s need is UNIVERSAL.”

Go follow ➡@terryderon ⬅️ I was sent this post and asked to give my thoughts on it. This post was intended for women in Africa and their dating culture is very different than it is in the United States. So for American women I think this advice is stupid as hell for a variety of reasons and any woman that would use dating strategies like these is setting herself up for failure. For starters I think the whole idea of a woman ending a relationship after a year simply because they aren’t married is dumb. Women that date with this kind of preset timeline almost always ruin relationships that could have potentially lead to marriage by trying to force the issue. Which is exactly what is described here. There are no guarantees in any relationship so anyone that ever expects to get them has unrealistic expectations about how real life works! Cutting off bedroom benefits equates to withholding sex to manipulate the man. Another very destructive and unproductive behavior. Doing stupid stuff like that is much more likely to lead to cheating or a break up than it is to lead to an engagement. This is basically a woman passive aggressively giving her bf an ultimatum to marry her and I don’t think this tactic would be very successful at all. A woman that tries this with a man that is financially secure and possesses the qualities that most women view as husband/father material that is already committed to her is a damn fool that’s going to end up looking and feeling like an asshole in the end! Healthy relationships are formed organically and they don’t have preplanned timelines. This is an example of a woman with a severely flawed view of how relationships work destroying her relationship from the inside out! DON’T BE THIS CHIC! Tag someone that would like my page or the things I talk about! For the most viral memes on social media ✔check out @quotekillahs Dm us to reach over a 1,000,000?ACTIVE followers for your promotion and marketing needs. Our advertising network consist of ♻@QK4life ?@terryderon ?@tales4dahood ?@ogboombostic ?@just2vicious @libra_and_aries and ?@boutmyblessings #terryderon #quotekillahs

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Police Deny Knowledge & Investigation Of VeryDarkMan’s Missing N180m

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Martins Otse, popularly known as VeryDarkMan, sparked a social media frenzy on Friday when he announced that his NGO’s account had been hacked, resulting in the theft of ₦180 million.

The Federal Capital Territory (FCT) Police Command has stated that it does not know about the missing ₦180 million from his non-governmental organisation’s bank account, as reported on its website.

In an Instagram video, VeryDarkMan explained that the hackers had compromised the account and left only ₦20 million after making away with the substantial sum.

He detailed the incident, expressing his shock and disappointment at the breach.

I’ve not been myself these past few days.

Somebody hacked into the NGO website, and ₦180 million is missing. Thankfully, we’ve tracked the person, and one suspect has been arrested.

The account is now on PND (Post No Debit). There’s ₦20 million left, while ₦160 million was diverted. We’re heading to Jos to recover the money.

He stated that the incident had been reported to the police, who are actively working to recover the stolen funds.

However, when contacted on Saturday, FCT Police Command spokesperson Josephine Adeh clarified that the command does not know the case. Adeh firmly emphasised this point in her response.

The FCT Police Command is not aware of any case involving VDM’s missing funds and is not conducting any investigation into it.

The individual in question should be contacted to clarify where the matter was reported, as there is no record of such a case with the FCT Police Command.

Social media users have widely challenged VeryDarkMan’s account theft claims, expressing doubts about the reported ₦180 million loss.

The FCT Police Command’s statement denying knowledge of the incident has intensified public scrutiny of Otse’s allegations.

Online commentators have specifically questioned the origin and documentation of the funds. Also, they have questioned the technical details of the alleged cyber attack.

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OdumoduBlvck Recounts How Don Jazzy Gifted Him $10,000

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OdumoduBlvck recently praised Mavin Records founder Don Jazzy in an interview with Beats FM.

The rapper discussed his latest project, “Nothing Changed,” a collaborative effort with the Anti-World Gangsters crew. The album features Don Jazzy on the track “Asampete.”

OdumoduBlvck revealed that after recording “Asampete,” he felt the song would benefit from Don Jazzy’s contribution. When approached, Don Jazzy readily agreed to the request.

During their meeting, Don Jazzy not only added his vocals to the song but also surprised OdumoduBlvck with a generous gift of $10,000.

Impressively, Don Jazzy declined any royalties for his contribution to the track.

“When I went to his house to get his vocals, he gave me $10,000 and even my friend was asking me why he gave me such a huge amount of money,” he narrated in the interview.

OdumoduBlvck further praised Don Jazzy, describing him as the most original personality in the Nigerian music industry and a true icon.

“There’s nobody more original than Don Jazzy…The way the younger artists look up to Burna Boy, Davido, Wizkid, and Olamide today is how they used to look up to Don Jazzy”.

OdumoduBlvck’s praise for Don Jazzy’s generosity and influence on the Nigerian music industry echoes sentiments expressed by numerous artists whose careers have been shaped by the Mavin Records boss.

Four-time Grammy nominee Davido has credited Don Jazzy and D’banj’s flamboyant lifestyle for inspiring him to relocate to Nigeria and pursue his musical aspirations.

Don Jazzy’s philanthropic endeavours also continue to make headlines. Recently, he donated a substantial sum of 100 million naira to Very Dark Man’s charity.

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Actress Eucharia Anunobi Preaches Against Seeking Validation From Others

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Nigerian actress and evangelist Eucharia Anunobi shared a compelling message about self-empowerment through her Instagram platform on December 19, 2024.

The Nollywood veteran directly addressed her followers in a social media post, urging them to break free from seeking external validation.

Anunobi, known for her influential roles in the Nigerian film industry, stressed that individuals should cultivate a strong sense of self-worth independent of others’ opinions.

The acclaimed actress articulated that personal growth and fulfilment stem from embracing one’s authentic self rather than conforming to societal expectations or public judgment.

In the video posted, Eucharia Anunobi enquired, “Why do you want everyone to like you? Even ice cream isn’t liked by everyone, come on.”Her post caption read,

“Seeking to be liked by all is a sign that you are emotionally and spiritually imbalanced! Some people will hate you because to hate is what gives them joy!! Because they are genetically wicked!!! So get used to not being liked!!!!1 John 5:19.”

The actress’s post ignited a flurry of reactions in her comment section, with followers expressing support and sharing their personal reflections.

Actress Sola Sobowale commented simply, “Fact.”

Other followers shared their thoughts, with one writing, “Anyone who is always seeking validation from the public whenever he or she does something, just know say that person no clear 💯.”

“Caring what people think about you is natural. Letting it drive your behaviours and keep you from doing things you believe in is usually a sign of,” said another person.

Another Instagram user shed more light on the issue, saying,

“codependency conditioning. The core belief in codependency is: what people think of me defines what I think of me. My mother always said, “Your opinion of me is none of my business.” It can get real exhausting perceiving yourself through the eyes of others. No matter how pure your intention, you cannot control how people receive you. Give others the freedom to perceive you as they wish, for it’s merely a reflection of themselves and not your reality. Never mind who sees you. Do you see you?”

“I don’t like people who wanna be liked by everyone, just do you and move on,”

“Thisss ,it’s okay to be a bad person in another persons story ,Only God is PERFECT 👍”

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